Put a Stop to Labeling
October 23, 2008
The human brain is wired to instantly categorize everything we perceive. This is a good thing in life threatening situations, as when you are about to step on a coiled rattlesnake on the ground and your brain calls out an immediate "Freeze!" warning to all muscles. Other times, however, that instant categorization mechanism that says "coiled snake-like object on ground equals danger!" can trip you up. What if the snake turns out to be a harmless garden hose? Your brain has sent a danger signal to your body for no reason. As you reach higher stages of emotional, moral and spiritual development, you need to check the brain’s instinctual tendency to label items or people as "good" or "bad", "safe" or "dangerous", "us" or "them". To create a spiritually intelligent workplace, we need to put a stop to labeling by using our higher spiritual powers.
This requires an evolution from duality thinking to "both/and" thinking. The instinctual part of the brain will continue to instantly categorize things but it is up to the executive function of the brain to translate those black and white judgments into inclusive, non-judgmental and holistic viewpoint. Once this translation is complete, the individual can now act in a considered, inclusive way. It looks like this:
Step three is critical. This is where the person’s vigilant "observer mind" catches itself doing its normal categorizing. The observer mind is that part of you that is divinely connected and represents your highest self. "Oops," says the observer mind, "Let’s not go there. What other perspective or viewpoint could I take that is more spiritually mature?" The brain reconsiders, assuming a broader, whole-cosmos perspective, and then chooses the best reaction to the stimulus. A good way to help your brain assume this whole-cosmos perspective is outlined in a previous post on the heavenly perspective.
This process goes slowly at first, as you engage the observer mind more actively. This requires spiritual will and perseverance to train your mind to catch itself as it jumps to conclusions that may not serve your highest truth. Persevere! Keep at it! There are precious rewards, such as increased love, compassion and inner peace, in making progress toward retraining your brain.
This is what the process looks like when you have made progress in re-training your brain to stop labeling:
The brain takes the high road, so to speak, and bounces lightly into the categorizing and labeling stages but quickly advances to the inclusive thinking.
You might even get so advanced as to skip steps two and three altogether. Bravo to you if you are here in your reactions:
Here are some labels that I’d like to adopt a more inclusive, whole-cosmos perspective of:
| Christian | vs. | Muslim |
| Theist | vs. | Atheist |
| Republican | vs. | Democrat |
| Rich | vs. | Poor |
| Managers | vs. | Employees |
| Man | vs. | Woman |
| Straight | vs. | Gay |
| Good | vs. | Evil |
I propose that, instead of labeling, we start thinking of all people as simply "children of God", "the Divine’s people" or "souls on a journey together". Easier said than done, huh?
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